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Right off the bat: we’re going to be talking about abusive relationships. This is a subject that can be touchy for some people, so proceed with all caution.
So with all that said:
I write a lot about men behaving badly. In fact, I’m regularly accused — with some accuracy — of being much harder on men than I am on women. This is because, frankly, I want men to be better. I want masculinity to be something positive, not something toxic that mistakes violence for power, anger for strength, sex for value.
Sometimes that means talking about things men are doing wrong, so they can recognize it and do better.
Sometimes it means teaching men how to help themselves… even when the world tells them that they can’t.
Which is why I want to talk about a subject we don’t hear much about: when men find themselves…
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